Military Deployment Didn’t Stop Our Marriage — Here’s How

Military Deployment Didn’t Stop Our Marriage — Here’s How

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Getting married was always part of our plan — we just didn’t expect to do it from separate countries.

When you’re in a cross-border relationship, especially with military deployment, everything gets more complicated. Paperwork, travel restrictions, planning — even picking a date can feel impossible.

We wanted to start our life together. But a traditional wedding just wasn’t an option.

Then we found out we could say “I do” over Zoom — for real.

At first, we thought it was some kind of loophole. But after researching, we learned that states like Utah legally support fully virtual marriages — with a licensed officiant and official paperwork — and they’re recognized across the U.S..

We decided to go for it.

Here’s how it worked for us:

• We verified our identities and filled out a quick form.
• We booked our wedding time with an officiant who was licensed for online ceremonies.
• We invited our closest friends and family to join via Zoom.
• And when the day came, we joined the call, said our vows, and just like that — we were married.

I said “I do” from my living room. My fiancé said it from their country overseas.

It was emotional. It was simple. And it was ours.

The officiant walked us through the process. The ceremony was quick, but powerful. And we received our official marriage certificate right after — no courthouse, no plane tickets, no here headaches.

Since then, we’ve used our online marriage to handle immigration documents, and every agency has recognized it — no issues at all.

If you’re dealing with distance, don’t wait. Online marriage is legal, and it’s a modern way to start your future — even if you’re not in the same place.

We’re proof that marriage can happen anywhere — and that what matters most is the person on the other end of the call.

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